Love, Relationships, & Speed Dating

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Activity Overview

A few videos and articles that participants can check out. 
Lots of discussion questions to ask. 

Discussion Questions

Finding out more about your date:

  1. What makes you happy/sad/angry?  What makes you laugh?
  2. Are you more of a city or country person?
  3. How would your best friend describe you?
  4. What is your dream job?  What are you career plans?
  5. What color best describes your personality?
  6. What are you most passionate about?
  7. What do you consider your best/worst attributes?
  8. When do you feel most like yourself?

Relationship Questions

  1. Why did you and your last boy/girlfriend break up?
  2. Do you want to have children?  How many? Why? How important is family to you?  
  3. Of all the people you know, who has the best/worst relationship? Why?
  4. How do you deal with disagreements in a relationship? Avoidance or confrontation?
  5. What are the most important things you're looking for in a significant other?
  6. Would you prefer to have a career, be a stay-at-home parent, or both?
  7. Describe your perfect date.
  8. Would you need/want to live with (or near) your parents after getting married?
  9. In an argument between your spouse and parent, whose side would you be on?
  10. What are your dating ‘red flags’ or ‘deal breakers’?
  11. How do you think husbands and wives should divide housework and childcare duties?
  12. How often do you want to meet/talk to/text your significant other?
  13. What are your biggest hopes and concerns about getting married?

Finding out about your date's hobbies and interests:

  1. What did you do last weekend?     What do you do for fun?
  2. What song(s) are you listening to these days?
  3. What are your favorite smells?
  4. What is the last movie you saw?
  5. IPhone or Samsung?  Burger or pizza? Mountain or beach? Beer or Soju? Rice or noodles?
  6. Who is your hero or role model?
  7. What book are you reading at the moment?
  8. What is your favorite takeout meal?
  9. Do you like to travel?  Where would you like to go?  What is your favorite place on Earth?

Assorted Questions:

  1. If you won the lottery how would you spend your winnings?
  2. What time in history would you have liked to be born in and why?
  3. What is the most adventurous thing you have ever done?
  4. Are you a night owl or an early bird?
  5. If you have friends coming for dinner what would you cook?
  6. In what ways are you unusual?
  7. Do you think men and women can be ‘just friends’?