Love, Relationships, & Speed Dating
A few videos and articles that participants can check out.
Lots of discussion questions to ask.
Finding out more about your date:
- What makes you happy/sad/angry? What makes you laugh?
- Are you more of a city or country person?
- How would your best friend describe you?
- What is your dream job? What are you career plans?
- What color best describes your personality?
- What are you most passionate about?
- What do you consider your best/worst attributes?
- When do you feel most like yourself?
Relationship Questions
- Why did you and your last boy/girlfriend break up?
- Do you want to have children? How many? Why? How important is family to you?
- Of all the people you know, who has the best/worst relationship? Why?
- How do you deal with disagreements in a relationship? Avoidance or confrontation?
- What are the most important things you're looking for in a significant other?
- Would you prefer to have a career, be a stay-at-home parent, or both?
- Describe your perfect date.
- Would you need/want to live with (or near) your parents after getting married?
- In an argument between your spouse and parent, whose side would you be on?
- What are your dating ‘red flags’ or ‘deal breakers’?
- How do you think husbands and wives should divide housework and childcare duties?
- How often do you want to meet/talk to/text your significant other?
- What are your biggest hopes and concerns about getting married?
Finding out about your date's hobbies and interests:
- What did you do last weekend? What do you do for fun?
- What song(s) are you listening to these days?
- What are your favorite smells?
- What is the last movie you saw?
- IPhone or Samsung? Burger or pizza? Mountain or beach? Beer or Soju? Rice or noodles?
- Who is your hero or role model?
- What book are you reading at the moment?
- What is your favorite takeout meal?
- Do you like to travel? Where would you like to go? What is your favorite place on Earth?
Assorted Questions:
- If you won the lottery how would you spend your winnings?
- What time in history would you have liked to be born in and why?
- What is the most adventurous thing you have ever done?
- Are you a night owl or an early bird?
- If you have friends coming for dinner what would you cook?
- In what ways are you unusual?
- Do you think men and women can be ‘just friends’?